I am an Artist. My art is 'to make people fall in Love with me". Once they fall in love with me, what do you think they do! No, they don't get obsessed with me and I don't start controlling them. I let the Bond of Love build on Independence and sometimes Interdependence.
We share our strengths and make each other more self-reliant. They do not come and cry thinking I would help them out. We just talk and feel better. We talk about how weak we feel at times, but we do not highlight the weaknesses much.
We usually laugh a lot and then sometimes I express anger also, genuine anger, when I do not like something. They do not dislike me. They think of why I was angry. Sometimes they say sorry, sometimes they give explanations and sometimes 'do nothing' and let it pass. Its easy. Then I fake being angry a little longer and at last we laugh out loud. It makes us happy and more in love. So we switch between "Angry birds" and 'Love birds". If at all my anger touches in-genuine heights, I go and start talking naturally. This is also easy.
Gradually when we have shared enough, we feel empowered. Then we do not need to talk much. We just sometimes drop in to say hello. We are always aware that the other one is easily approachable.
Practicing this art has helped me a lot. So many people love me now. I feel elated we love each other. The emptiness I once faced is not there. I am more hopeful now. Getting to know so much about others' lives is like taking Group therapy. It heals me. I suppose, they stay in love with me because they also experience the same.
P.S. I have not given out the secret of "How to make people fall in love". I still have to figure that out. Its an art and not a science, u see!
We share our strengths and make each other more self-reliant. They do not come and cry thinking I would help them out. We just talk and feel better. We talk about how weak we feel at times, but we do not highlight the weaknesses much.
We usually laugh a lot and then sometimes I express anger also, genuine anger, when I do not like something. They do not dislike me. They think of why I was angry. Sometimes they say sorry, sometimes they give explanations and sometimes 'do nothing' and let it pass. Its easy. Then I fake being angry a little longer and at last we laugh out loud. It makes us happy and more in love. So we switch between "Angry birds" and 'Love birds". If at all my anger touches in-genuine heights, I go and start talking naturally. This is also easy.
Gradually when we have shared enough, we feel empowered. Then we do not need to talk much. We just sometimes drop in to say hello. We are always aware that the other one is easily approachable.
Practicing this art has helped me a lot. So many people love me now. I feel elated we love each other. The emptiness I once faced is not there. I am more hopeful now. Getting to know so much about others' lives is like taking Group therapy. It heals me. I suppose, they stay in love with me because they also experience the same.
P.S. I have not given out the secret of "How to make people fall in love". I still have to figure that out. Its an art and not a science, u see!
